Books For Exploring Your Pleasure

30 books that shaped my work, all in one list.

Glass of red wine and open book on a wooden café table, with outdoor seating and promotional text reading “Books for Exploring Your Pleasure.”
Glass of red wine and open book on a wooden café table, with outdoor seating and promotional text reading “Books for Exploring Your Pleasure.”

What’s inside

This is the reading I wish someone had handed me at 22. It's 30 books across six sections. You don't have to read them in order, so start wherever you're most curious.

Section 1: Reclaiming the Body. Start here if you've spent years evaluating your body instead of living in it.

Section 2: Understanding Women's Pleasure. This is the sex ed most of us never got: arousal, anatomy, orgasm, and how your body actually works.

Section 3: Needs, Boundaries & Self-Trust. Pleasure grows when you know what you want and how to advocate for it.

Section 4: Desire & Erotic Power. This is where pleasure starts to spill into the rest of your life.

Section 5: Erotic Relationships & Intimacy. This section covers communication, long-term desire, and how to explore different relationship structures.

Section 6: Pleasure Philosophy. Go here when you want to go deep into mythology and the stories we inherited about women's bodies.

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